Montse Domínguez i Munllonch
Oct 29, 20181 min
The #soundtrack of my life is Eric Carmen-All by myself(1976).When I was young I saw my father working so hard.Nobody helped him or maybe he did not allow it.
He was #greengroceer in a big store in the center of #durban in #southafrica.
He lived in silence, dedicated to prayer and work from #dawn to #dusk.My father always told me : you are #responsible of your life. Nobody, noboby has to maintain you, emotionally or economically. That is #oldstyle and you are from the #newgeneration of #africanwomen
So, these words have been present all my life like a dogma.
I agree with him, don’t get me wrong but sometimes we live in a #community in an #ecosystem in which we help each other without nothing in exchange.Even you can raise your hand if you need some #help that means #Love for me.I am already old lady and I understood that everybody needs to review its family #dogmas at some point.
Johannesburg, South Africa
Pic by Uncle Dutch
#mylife#reviewmyself#review#values#heritagefamily#family